Be Bold and Feminine.

  Heyyyy!  No matter what you do, someone will always have an opinion about it. You could be out here minding your business, eating your favorite ice cream, and someone will still say, “You should’ve picked vanilla instead of chocolate.”  It’s frustrating, isn’t it? Nobody likes being judged, but it happens to everyone. The good news is that you don’t have to let it get to you.  Let’s talk about how to deal with people’s opinions without letting them ruin your peace of mind.  Why Do People Judge?  Let’s figure out why people even judge in the first place. It’s not because your choices are that wild. Most of the time, it’s got nothing to do with you.  Here’s what’s really going on:  1. They’re insecure: Some people criticize because they’re not happy with their own lives. If they see you doing something bold, it reminds them of what they’re too scared to do. So, they judge.  2. They don’t understand: People fear what they don’t get. If your li...

  Let’s talk about moneyyyyy You know that thing we all want more of but sometimes feel too scared to figure out? Yeah, that.  If you’ve been thinking about where to put your money in 2025 to make it grow, you’re in the right place. We’re not doing anything overly technical here, just the good stuff you can actually use.  Investing doesn’t have to be overwhelming or something reserved for the ultra-rich. It’s just about being smart with what you have and letting your money work for you.  Soooo, let's goooo! 1. Stocks and Shares: Owning a Piece of the Action When I first heard of “Stocks” I thought it was an Investment that's only suited for Wall Street pros, but honestly? It’s simpler than you think.  When you buy stocks, you’re basically saying, “Hey, I believe in this company’s future, so I want in.”   Little tip:  Start with companies you know and trust. Apple, Amazon, or even Coca-Cola, and others. They’re not going anywhere anytime soon. These are...

  Dearest Gentle reader 😁 I know you might wonder why I haven’t written to you. I wasn’t silent.  You’re always on my mind and so, I want to give you the best. ___________ Dreaming big is scary. You might think about the life you want, filled with freedom, purpose, and joy, and then immediately feel overwhelmed.  Thoughts like, “What if I fail?” or “Where do I even start?” creep in and keep you stuck in the same old routine.  I get it, taking that leap toward the life you’ve always dreamed of feels like stepping into the unknown.  But the life you want is waiting for you. It’s not reserved for “special” people or the super confident.  It’s for anyone bold enough to take that first step, no matter how uncertain they feel.  So, if you’re ready to stop dreaming and start doing, here are five bold steps to help you begin.  1. Get Clear About What You Want Before you can chase your dream life, you need to know what it looks like.  How can you mov...

  Who exactly decided that some jobs or positions are “off-limits” for women?  Like, really, who appointed them the gatekeeper of all things career-related? If it’s your passion, why shouldn’t you be there? Leadership roles, big decisions, and creating impact are all for you to grab. Society has this THING for throwing stereotypes around, especially when you’re on the brink of doing something big or a little outside the box.  You know already: someone always has an opinion on what women should and shouldn’t do, even if they’ve never been in your shoes a day in their life. But all that noise? It doesn’t deserve any space in your head. Criticism is Like Background Music: Tune It Out The moment you start making moves, it’s almost guaranteed that someone, somewhere, will have a comment about it. It’s like society’s unwanted soundtrack: “Are you sure that’s for you?” or “Wow, that’s a lot for a woman.” It’s ridiculous, but it’s real. And it can really wear you down if you let ...