Girl, you are the PRICE!

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I know a few ladies who are in a relationship where they don't feel appreciated or valued and you know why?


Some are there because of the benefits they get while some don't know how to get out of that situation.


Maybe you've been there or you're out already and are looking for “WHAT NEXT” 


You are the price!!!


You need to learn how to be a high-value woman who's not apologetic about her wants and needs. I'm not saying you should be everywhere because less is better, and you get to focus on what matters to you.


When I was a teen, I never had friends because of my introverted nature. My mum will always talk to me about it, but what can I do?

It wasn't a norm for me to roam around, unlike my sisters who knew every street around our neighbourhood.


But, being an introvert helped me to find out when I get creative and understand who I am. It helped me to plan what next. It also made me naive and free from the outside world.


So, when I encountered some situations, especially in relationships, it hurt more and also made me stronger and better.


The options I chose a few years ago have definitely changed, and the people I thought were good are no longer my "TYPE."


So what changed? I became better and developed myself more. The more I grow, the better I make decisions that truly align with me.



A high-value woman will prioritize her:


1. Mental health: Create boundaries, exercise regularly, and unsubscribe from irrelevant topics that aren't good for you. 


2. Personal development: Read books, attend workshops or webinars, purchase courses or get a coach who's been on the journey of where you're going.


3. Babygirl treatment: No matter how little, get yourself some treats, apply perfumes and dress like a lady, go to spar, shop or anything else you like. 


4. Career development: Upskill or learn a skill that’ll help you make some $$$




Everything else is a plus if you're a girl boss who's bold and feminine. You aren't afraid to enter any room because of the value you have. You sit with executives and discuss business deals and developments because of your value.


A man who sees these things in you will value you except he's just too blind or the wrong man for you.


Sometimes, ladies who carry value do not know how to communicate or show their value.


But you don't have to talk about it. SHOW IT!


  1. Communicate your non-negotiables
  2. Be clear on what you want girl, it will come with the right person.
  3. Avoid chasing perfection and over expectant of a lot
  4. Be independent.


Being independent doesn't mean you won't accept gifts from your man, baby treats, vacations etc. 


An independent lady does not wait for a man to cater for her needs 100% - That alone gives you the desired respect.



Share your thoughts in the comments.



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  1. AnonymousSeptember 24, 2024

    Thank you so much!
    Truly, there's great respect for a woman who knows her worth and is independent.
    The wrong people might come around, hopeful the right one will come one day.

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    1. Boldly FemaleSeptember 29, 2024

      You're welcome.
      I'm sure the right person will come. 💕

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