Never TEXT him first.

 

Like seriously?

I recently saw a video telling women not to out-communicate men, and I just sat there silent.

These days, relationships feel like a game with a bunch of rules, and honestly, I can’t stand it. Why is it so hard to just be yourself?

If getting excited when a man texts you is part of your personality, why suppress it? What’s meant for you will always find you. When you start playing these games, it messes with your emotions, and before you know it, you can’t even tell what feels right anymore.

Some men can sense when you’re pretending, and they’ll start playing games too. So, who’s going to get hurt at the end of the day? Spoiler alert, it’s usually you.

Be Yourself—Always

Being yourself is the best thing you can do in any relationship. Let’s not forget, what’s yours will be. Stop worrying about appearing too eager, too laid-back, or whatever. The right person will meet you where you are, no mind games are needed. If texting first feels like you, do it. If not, that’s cool too.

Relationships shouldn’t feel like a chess game. 

It’s not about who’s texting first or how long you should wait before replying. 

 

Be bold and feminine embrace your own style, and don’t let someone else’s rules change you. The people who are meant to be in your life will stay, regardless of how often you text first.

The Cost of Playing Games

Here’s something to think about: when you follow all these “rules” on what to say, when to text, and how to act, you slowly lose yourself. You stop being authentic, and you lose sight of what feels right. That’s not just exhausting, it’s damaging. And for what? To keep someone who might not even notice or appreciate the effort?

It’s better to be bold and feminine, true to who you are than to follow a playbook that doesn’t reflect your personality. 

If texting first makes you happy, why hold back? Let go of these unnecessary rules and allow your real self to shine. The right relationship will flourish when you show up as YOU.

Authenticity Wins in the End

Pretending to be someone you’re not doesn’t lead to long-term happiness. And truthfully, how long can you keep up the act? Being bold means stepping into your own light, unapologetically. It means showing up for yourself and not worrying about whether or not someone else will text you first. When you’re feminine and true to your emotions, you’ll attract the right people who vibe with you.

Forget the rules. Be YOU. That’s how you find connections that matter.

What’s yours will always be, and it won’t need a strategy to keep it. Trust in your bold and feminine self, and let the rest fall into place.

Let’s chat in the comments. What do you think? Do you text first, or do you wait?

Have you ever followed these so-called rules, and did they work for you?

Let’s share our experiences because, at the end of the day, relationships are about connection, not competition.

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