What Do You Bring to the Table?

 

I wish you could see my side-eye every time I hear this question being asked, especially from men. The audacity, right? 

It’s like, "Man, she isn’t just the table; she’s the need provider for the table." 

Before anyone goes around asking, “What do you bring to the table?” maybe they should make sure that table even exists for you to add to. You can’t bring something to a table that’s not even there.

Am I right, my lady?

Now, let’s break this down. Here’s what you really bring to the table:

1. You See Needs and Provide Solutions

You naturally spot what’s missing. Whether it’s in relationships, family, work, or anything else, you have this radar for identifying needs and filling them. You’re not just bringing value; you’re adding what’s lacking and making things better.

Think about it. How many times have you filled a gap without even being asked? That’s your gift. When you bring value, it’s not just surface-level; it’s meaningful. 

You see what the situation lacks and step in to fix it, no questions asked. That’s what makes you so unique. 

2. You Are a Woman of High Value

Being a woman of value doesn’t just mean showing up. It’s about growing, learning, and constantly evolving. You need to invest in yourself, your skills, and your own personal growth. 

Maybe it’s reading books, attending seminars, watching courses, or learning a new skill. Whatever your hands find to do, do it with all your might.

Value isn’t just a title you carry around; it’s a lifestyle. It’s what you embody every day by pushing yourself to be the best version of you. And the more you grow, the more you can offer. Whether it’s in a relationship, a friendship, or your career. 

3. You Add Purpose to Relationships

When it comes to relationships, bringing something to the table means knowing what both you and your partner need. Relationships are partnerships, and each side should bring something unique. But remember, it’s not just about what you bring; it’s about what he’s bringing, too.

You might want to prove your worth, listing your qualities, and showing all you bring to the relationship. But it should be a two-way street. You deserve a partner who not only values you but also brings something of equal importance. Together, you both should elevate each other’s lives.

4. Stay Active and Purposeful

You can’t just relax and expect respect. Being valuable means actively engaging with life, with purpose, and with intention. You have to stay proactive about your goals, your knowledge, and your personal growth. Rest when you need to, but don’t lose that fire.

Sometimes, it feels like you have to work twice as hard just to be respected. And while that might not seem fair, it’s your strength and drive that make you unforgettable. 

You’re creating your own value every day by staying active in your purpose. You’re not waiting for someone to hand you a seat at the table you’re building your own

5. Ask the Real Question: “What Need Do You Have?”

So, next time someone asks you, “What do you bring to the table?” flip the question: “What need do you have on your table?” 

Instead of proving your worth or reciting your qualities, find out if this person even has a genuine space for you. What’s the point of bringing your skills, energy, and commitment to a table where there’s no real need for you?

This isn’t just about romantic relationships. It applies to friendships, business partnerships, and all kinds of relationships. Your value is too high to be wasted on tables where there’s no room for you. Align yourself with people who see the worth you bring and are willing to build alongside you.

6. Remember: You Are the Table

At the end of the day, remember this; “You are the table.” You are a provider, a creator, and a problem-solver. You don’t need validation from anyone else to know your worth. 

The fact that you’re constantly evolving, learning, and contributing means you’re already adding value. Anyone who fails to see that probably isn’t ready for what you’re bringing to the table anyway.

In conclusion

Asking “What do you bring to the table?” is a narrow way to look at relationships, partnerships, and personal value. The real question is: what need can you fulfil, and where is your energy best spent? You’re not just a piece of a puzzle or a nice addition; you’re a critical part of any table you choose to join.

So, next time you hear that question, smile, take a deep breath, and know you bring a lot more than anyone can see at first glance. You’re the whole package; ambitious, intelligent, compassionate, and driven.

And if someone doesn’t appreciate it? That’s on them.

Ladies, keep building yourself, know your worth, and choose the tables that deserve you. Because you’re bringing so much more than anyone can see.

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